A Bittersweet Ending: No More Night Shift Quad Watch

Fri, Aug 22, 2008

Working at Home

If you’ve been reading my blog and listening to my show for long you know that my niece gave birth to quadruplets almost one year ago and that my son and I have been a big part of their support system. Even more they were born, we were on ‘Quad Mama Watch’ for many weeks as Tracy was placed on strict bed rest at about 17 weeks and needed a lot of company and help.

The babies were born 11 weeks early.  Tiny but in good health!  Max, Piper, Brody and Willow spent over three months in the NICU and we finally celebrated their homecoming just before Christmas.

Ever since then I have been sleeping during the day and covering the night shift with the babies so that mom and dad could get some sleep.  From December through May my son worked the night shift with me.  Sometimes it didn’t seem that two people would be enough!  With four little ones needing to eat so often and get lots of treasuring in between – we were busy babysitters every night.

In May the babies were sleeping enough that I felt I could cover the night shift on my own.  Sean moved over to the day shift, helping stay at home dad Gabe with the babies while Tracy worked.

You know I enjoyed those first months with all of the babies – but it has been the summer months when it was just the babies and I that I have felt most blessed by this experience.  Can you imagine being able to snuggle four sleepy babies every night? Sure, there were some nights that they put me through my paces – but I never felt overwhelmed.

Well, last night was my last night shift.


Max, Brody and Willow are sleeping through the night and Piper is only waking up once.  They no longer need Aunt Kelly in the next room ready to deliver a bottle and snuggles on demand.

On one side, of course I’m pleased to be returning to a more normal sleep schedule.

But on the other – it’s the end of a season in my life that has been so precious to me and I’ll admit to you that I’m really going to miss it.

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Kelly McCausey is the host of Work at Home Moms Talk Radio and owner of Mom's Talk Network. She has built a successful internet based home business and helps other moms do the same.

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  • Kelly,

    It is so nice to know that you were there for them when they needed you most and we all know you will always be there for them.

    I could see how you would miss your nightly snuggles those precious little angels. But whoo hooo they are sleeping through the night.

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  • sandra jensen
    Congratulations, Kelly and Sean! YOU DID IT!!!! What an awesome comittment, and you stuck with it, although I'm sure there were many nights you'd have much rather snuggled up in your own quarters!

    Says a lot for keeping your word! :-) Good job! :-)
  • What a special auntie you are! I know my 21 mo old granddaughter just adores her "auntie" but there's a special place for you for spending so much time and helping out with these adorable little ones! Bless them! Thanks for sharing such a nice piece of your life with us!
  • It was so great of you and your son to help out this whole time. It must be hard to "let go" of that time. But another chapter in your life begins.

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  • Aww, how sweet! They are adorable. You and Sean have been such a blessing to them. Knowing Auntie Kelly, they will continue to see you on a regular basis :)
  • WOW I am so happy that they are doing well. I hope that just beacause you aren't on Quad Watch that doesn't mean we dont get all of the cute updates.

    HUGS to you and I wonder how long it will take for your body to get adjusted to a new sleep schedule.

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  • Wow I bet it's going to be weird not having to do that anymore.

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  • That is great that they are doing so well. I can imagine what a huge change and adjustment it will be for you...and like you said, bittersweet. Praise God though that things have went so well!

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  • Awwww Kelly! I can't even begin to imagine how bittersweet that must be for you. I'm sorry to hear it's over but happy that a new chapter has begun as Auntie Kelly!

    :--) Nell

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  • It's been so wonderful to hear about the progress of the quads. Carrie's right - those nighttime snuggles are sweet. I'm sure you'll miss that. But as they get older and more active, they will have lots of fun with Aunt Kelly so the snuggles will just be replaced with new special times!

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  • That is so sweet Kelly. I know what you mean. Those nighttime snuggles are really sweet. :-)

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  • They are just so precious I can see why you'd feel a twinge (or knock over the head) with sadness. Cutie pies!

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  • Kelly, this was so kind of you. It must mean a lot to them to have that support. I'm sure it makes more difference than you realize for the quads to have that love and attention when they needed it. I bet it will be fun for you to have visits in the day for a change!

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  • Aw, that really is bittersweet. You`ve been such a big part of their lives, though, I hope you continue to visit those cuties a lot.

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