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Wed, Oct 28, 2009

Working at Home

This is a guest blog post by Alice Seba.

We’ve all said things like…

“There aren’t enough hours in the day.”
“If only I didn’t need to sleep…”

We moms have a lot to do… there’s no doubt. But there’s something I’ve come to learn in my 7 ½ years of being mom and an at home business owner… and it may surprise you.

There ARE enough hours in a day to get what you need and even want to get done. You just have to set your priorities and a schedule that works for you.

Start by setting your priorities: You know that big long to do list you have (business or personal)? Scratch a lot of it off.

Yes, really. Get rid of most, or a good chunk of, your to do list.

Moms are often hard on themselves and take on too much because we feel we have to. Well, I’ll let you in on a little secret. We DON’T have to and most of the people in our lives don’t think we have to either.

Here’s how to start shaving those lists:

  1. Remove the things that don’t absolutely have to be done. You know, like putting new shelf paper in the cupboards and changing the background color of your blog. Those are obvious ones, but look at your list closely and identify those “nice to have items” and put them aside for now.

  2. Delegate: Kids and spouses can pitch in. Even if you feel your 8 year old can’t pack his lunch, take the time to show him how, so you can shave 5-10 minutes out of your hectic schedule each and every day. Get the family cleaning, helping with dinner and preparing for the next day. It’s not all mama’s responsibility.

Then when it comes to business, delegate and outsource.

Whether you recruit an intern, bring on a partner or contract the services of someone else – don’t do it all yourself.

  1. Say No: Stop agreeing to every favor that is asked of you. Whether it’s organizing the school bake sale or considering a sponsor for your blog, you don’t have time… you don’t have time

    Learn to say confidently, “Sorry, it just doesn’t fit my schedule.” No excuses, no “Maybe laters”. Just politely say no.


  2. Above all, keep in mind, what’s most important to you. If it’s family time, make sure your schedule allows for it. If you want to get to the gym three times per week, but you’re exhausted from rushing around packing the kids in the car and dropping them of at the childcare room, consider a shorter home workout.

You make it work…on your terms.

If you’re facing a new change to your routine, give yourself time to adjust and set new priorities. That’s the wonderful thing about family life – it never stays the same.

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  • I totally agree when you said "Moms are often hard on themselves and take on too much because we feel we have to. Well, I’ll let you in on a little secret. We DON’T have to and most of the people in our lives don’t think we have to either."

    I've shaved off quite a few items and have zoned in on what's important. For example - Is it important that I sweep the entire house every day or is it important that the floors are kept clean? Or is it important that I wash laundry every day or is it important for my family to have clean clothes when they need it. Is it important that I read my favorite blogs first or should I do my core activities to build my blog first?

    It's been such a freeing experience when I've said no and chosen what was really important. At times housework is more important and at times online work is more important. I'm learning those different seasons.
  • If we all had more time for [insert project] we would want more time for [ insert new project]. It's a never ending hamster wheel... LOL.

    Alice has been teaching for years " Stop adding more projects to your list... Focus on what is the most important and start weeding out the time killers".

    Splendid reminder Alice... thanks.
  • It's all so true. I have a really hard time with delegating and saying "No".
  • Thanks for the feedback everyone. Much appreciated. The key is to adjust your schedule constantly til you hit the "I DO have enough hours in the day" mark. Because sorry to say, no matter how much you hope...the day will never be longer than 24 hours and your body will always need some sleep. ;-)
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